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June 2013

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They told me not to feel bad about my abortion

That’s what a young woman said to her friend with wonder in her voice after encountering the #Stop Patriarchy booth at Warped Tour. She was pro-choice and wanted an #Abortion on Demand & Without Apology sticker but she had obviously never heard anyone talk positively about abortion. We mentioned how important and liberating the right to abortion is for all women, and how we need to fight for it this summer on the Abortion Rights Freedom Ride. It wasn’t long before she told us that she had had an abortion and wasn’t sorry she did, but also felt bad about it. We answered very supportively that abortion is a responsible choice, she obviously did the right thing for her, and she absolutely did not do anything wrong, period - so there’s no reason she should have to feel bad about it for the rest of her life. When her friend ran up behind her and got filled in about the conversation, she put her arm around her and gave her a kiss on the cheek and said, “You shouldn’t feel bad about your abortion.” The young woman smiled and you could literally see her shoulders relax. 

This needs to happen many times over and on a much larger scale throughout society. 1 in 3 American women will have an abortion by age 45. Think about how many teens and grown women are held back and held down by a burden of shame and stigma! This is totally unnecessary and should not be tolerated by anyone who cares about women or what kind of world we live in. 

This summer, Stop Patriarchy and all the people who will be joining us on the Abortion Rights Freedom Ride are setting out to change this! Imagine what it would look like, this new force on the scene, if everywhere the Freedom Ride travels, to all five states with only one clinic left, hundreds of girls and women, wave after wave, throw off the burden of shame and stigma and begin to proudly and defiantly fight to determine their own destinies and turn the tide for abortion rights. All this is tangible and possible.

This Freedom Ride is happening. Join it, Support it, Tell people about it. Donate at stoppatriarchy.org

Jun 17, 20133 notes
#abortion #abortion stigma #abortion rights #abortion providers #abortion access #abortion on demand #abortionrights #abortionrightsfreedomride #prochoice #Prochoice #patriarchy #pro-choice
Jun 16, 20138 notes
Jun 12, 201310 notes
Abortion is liberating, moral, and essential: STOP APOLOGIZING FOR IT!

Here is a clip of Obama answering the question, “Why do you support a woman’s right to abortion?”:

He is clearly struggling with how to carefully hold a pro-choice position (e.g. fetus vs. child) while pandering to the religious right, and ultimate reinforcing patriarchy. Well, he fucks up the fetus/child bit, to kick off the train wreck. Then he says before getting an abortion, instead of having the government tell her what to do with her body (ahem, morning after pill, coughcough), a woman should “consult with her conscience, her doctor, her minister, and her family.” Dude you are automatically disqualified. Saying she should “consult with her conscience” is in its essence a condemnation. Who needs to consult with their conscience before going to the dentist?? And her family (husband or father?) and her MINISTER? Yeah I wonder what the minister will have to say!!

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Jun 2, 201320 notes
A Liberation Generation!

These two young women living in Bayview/Hunter’s Point in San Francisco, through their involvement with Stop Patriarchy!, decided to take a stand against porn and rape culture:



One of them said, “I’m not gonna lie, I’ve watched porn.  And I’m always like, ‘Why does the woman look like she’s dying’??”  After having engaged with Sunsara Taylor’s talk, “From the Expanding Porn Industry to the Aggressive Religious Patriarchs: Stop the War on Women!”, and with a good sense of the relationship between porn as an industry that enslaves women, and the objectifying and dehumanizing impact it has on broader society, they went out after school to spread it around!  Here’s some of what that looked like:









These youth in Hunter’s Point are surrounded at every turn by porn culture that celebrates pimping and has turned the more-accessible-than-ever internet into an avalanche of sexualized torture, the “dog-eat-dog” poison of individualism, and the aggressive campaigns of the anti-abortion movement.  Many of them, upon engaging with Stop Patriarchy!, are acting out against all that in different ways, and some of them will join us this summer on Stop Patriarchy’s Abortion Rights Freedom Ride.  

In this moment, when the system is doing everything it can to make sure this generation thinks that they should just be grateful for what they do have — and that real, radical change is either unnecessary or impossible — there is a real basis for this message of liberation and open condemnation of patriarchy and this whole capitalist system, to puncture the stifling atmosphere of acceptance, and give young people who have a hunch that the way things are right now is UNACCEPTABLE, a vehicle through which to ACT and CHANGE the world!

To find out more about building the Liberation Generation, a new generation of youth ready and willing to STAND UP to END PATRIARCHY, the enslavement and degradation of women, contact: karlee.tiller@gmail.com

Jun 1, 2013
#stoppatriarchy #stop patriarchy #stop the war on women #women #women's liberation #women's rights #women's oppression #anti-pornography #anti-patriarchy #pro-abortion #pro abortion #pro-choice #prochoice #abortionrightsfreedomride
Abortion on Demand and Without Apology!

“Abortion is an issue that divides this country. This is no accident. How one thinks and feels about abortion flows fundamentally from how one views women.”

CLICK HERE to…

  • Read the full statement for Abortion On Demand & Without Apology and sign on!
  • Find out more about Stop Patriarchy’s Abortion Rights Freedom Ride across the country to the states where abortion is the most restricted!
  • Make a donation to this raucous & righteous summer!
  • JOIN US in turning the tide on the state-by-state stranglehold on abortion rights, and this whole war on women!

Forced Motherhood is Female Enslavement.

Fetuses are NOT babies.  Women are NOT incubators.  Abortion is NOT murder.

Abortion on Demand & Without Apology!  For EVERY woman in EVERY state, the reversal of abortion and birth control rights must stop NOW.

May 31, 20135 notes
#abortion #prochoice #pro-choice #women #Women's oppression #Women's Liberation #pro-abortion #anti-patriarchy #stoppatriarchy

May 2013

2 posts

Shout out to Black Skeptics for blogging about our statement: Abortion On Demand and Without Apology, For Every Woman in Every State. The Reversal of Abortion and Birth Control Rights Must Stop Now! → freethoughtblogs.com

http://freethoughtblogs.com/blackskeptics/2013/05/28/abortion-on-demand-and-without-apology/#comment-14893

May 29, 20135 notes
#Black Skeptics #anti-abortion #anti-choice #Prochoice #proabortion #abortion #abortion access #abortion on demand #abortion providers #Women's Liberation #Women's oppression #womens rights #legislation #anti-women #anti-woman

April 2013

6 posts

Apr 28, 201325 notes
#stop patriarchy #anti-porn #pro-abortion #pro-choice #activism #protest #revolution #STOP THE WAR ON WOMEN #abortion on demand #abortion rights #reproductive justice
Apr 28, 201320 notes
#anti-porn #anti-rape #fuckrapeculture #stoppatriarchy #sfwar #stopthewaronwomen #women
Oppose Suppression! Stop Patriarchy Removed from CLPP Conference by Police

Add your voice to oppose suppression at:

OPPOSE SUPPRESSION!

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Criminalization of Anti-Porn Position at “Social Justice” Conference

Apr 20, 2013
#CLPP #clpp2013 #Hampshire College #stoppatriarchy #anti-porn #Women's Liberation #pro-choice #pro-abortion
Criminalization of Anti-Pornography Position at "Social Justice" Conference!

Stop Patriarchy! went to the 27th annual conference at Hampshire College, hosted by CLPP (Civil Liberties and Public Policy): “From Abortion Rights to Social Justice: Building the Movement for Reproductive Freedom” and on the second day, we were escorted out by police.

How did this happen??

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Apr 14, 201357 notes
#CLPP #anti-porn #clpp2013 #pro-abortion #prochoice #pro-choice #Women's Liberation #oppression #Women's oppression
Alert! Condemn CLPP’s Use of Police to Shut Down Critical Debate!

Hampshire College, Amherst, MA: At CLPP* Conference: 

From Abortion Rights to Social Justice; Building the Movement for Reproductive Freedom

CLPP Called on Police to escort StopPatriarchy.org 

organizers out of conference under threat of arrest.

THIS DECISION MUST BE REVERSED AND REPUDIATED!

On the evening of Saturday, April 13 at the CLPP (Civil Liberties & Public Policy ) conference, several conference attendees approached the StopPatriarchy.org table with our Call to Action in hand to argue against our condemnation of the sex industry and pornography.  We welcomed this argument and got into a lively debate.  However, instead of engaging our critique of the social harm caused by pornography and the selling of women’s bodies for sex (how reducing women to sex objects through porn is the “mirror opposite” of reducing women to breeders through denying abortion), these people took offense to the fact that we dared to make this analysis.  

If they didn’t want to hear this critique, they were free to leave our table.  They chose not to simply do this.  Instead, they went to the CLPP organizers and complained that they felt the conference was no longer a “safe space” for them – merely because a table existed putting forward (and advocating to those who visited it), the position that the sex industry and pornography are horrifically harmful to women and humanity as a whole.

Outrageously, CLPP organizers did not investigate or ask a single organizer from StopPatriarchy.org – or others who had witnessed the debate – about what had happened.  Nor did they attempt to facilitate principled participation and dialogue between people with divergent viewpoints.  Instead, they showed up within minutes with campus police and insisted that StopPatriarchy.org immediately leave the campus under threat of arrest.

In any serious movement against oppression, it is essential that there be the broadest unity among people from different understandings, backgrounds and perspectives.  This requires space for principled and substantive debate over the source of the problems and the necessary solutions.

As a basic and bedrock principle: IT IS ALWAYS WRONG FOR PEOPLE WHO CLAIM TO BE FIGHTERS AGAINST OPPRESSION TO RELY ON THE POLICE AND OTHER FORCES OF THE STATE TO REPRESS AND PHYSICALLY THREATEN OTHERS WHO ARE FIGHTING FOR LIBERATION.

This decision by CLPP organizers must be broadly and widely condemned by conference-goers and others, and it must be reversed by conference organizers.  (Contact us at email below.)  It is an unacceptable precedent for a conference which is looked to as – and which claims to be – a space of inclusivity in the fight against oppression and injustice to render a critique of the sex industry “beyond the pale” and to utilize the repressive organs of the state to enforce this policing. 

Any movement that is serious about ending the enslavement and degradation of women must confront – or at minimum engage and include a critique of – the horrifically violent, degrading, enslaving and oppressive institutions of pornography and the sex industry and their devastating effects on women.  Every person who takes seriously both the liberation of women and the maintaining of basic standards in movements of opposition must take the time to read for themselves the Call to Action from StopPatriarchy.org which CLPP has officially censored.  It is attached. 

StopPatriarchy@gmail.com

StopPatriarchy.org

Apr 14, 20131 note
#stop patriarchy #CLPP2013 #hampshire college #anti-porn #pro-choice #pro-abortion #women's liberation #women's rights #REVOLUTION #sex work
"Legitimate Rape" on SVU &Real Justice

I am not a follower of the television show Law & Order: SVU (Special Victims Unit.) There’s something about the glorified police brutality and the idea of people’s trauma as entertainment that turns my stomach. Then I heard they did an episode called “Legitimate Rape.” The title is a play on the outrageous comments made by Todd Akin, a Republican candidate for a Senate seat in Missouri last August claiming victims of “legitimate rape” rarely get pregnant. I became curious about how they took this on, and figured it was worth watching, just this once. 

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Apr 8, 201314 notes
#law and order #svu #law and order svu #Todd Akin #abortion rights #rape culture #rape #abortion #prochoice #prolife #Cathrynn Brown

March 2013

9 posts

Mar 12, 201343 notes
Mar 12, 20134 notes
#IWD #internationalwomensday #anti-patriarchy #stoppatriarchy #stopthewaronwomen #women #liberation #oppression #protest #stripclubs
From Revolution News: Arkansas Law—Biggest Assault on Right to Abortion Urgently Needed: Massive, Uncompromising Resistance

http://revcom.us/a/298/arkansas-law-biggest-assault-on-right-to-abortion-en.html

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Mar 11, 20132 notes
#abortion #abortion access #abortion on demand #abortion rights #anti-abortion #pro abortion #proabortion #pro-choice #prochoice #pro-life #reproductive rights #STOP THE WAR ON WOMEN #roe v. wade #roe vs wade #war on women #Trust Women #Women's Liberation #Women's oppression #wewontgoback #women's rights
Mar 10, 20138 notes
Mar 10, 20139 notes
On IWD 2013: Submit? FUCK THAT. REVOLT.

From Alex.


Earlier this week someone I know was talking about how she was hearing International Women’s Day being covered on the radio and in the mainstream this year.  She was astonished at how this day has slid into the background, as something to be “observed,” as if it was a birthday or a funeral.  Today, March 8, International Women’s Day, has it’s roots in REVOLUTION; it is a day to FIGHT for the liberation of women, and in the midst of a whole society that has been saturated with the normalization of patriarchy, most of what we will hear throughout today and tomorrow will be anything BUT that.

Let’s unite tomorrow to DEFY that normalization, that forced and falsely justified numbness to the crimes committed against women every day, in every corner of the world.  It is true today as it has been for too long: No place in the world is it safe to be a woman!  Compare the women in Pakistan and Afghanistan who live with the very real fear of having acid thrown in their faces as a result of their parents rejecting a marriage proposal or even as a result of trying to go to school, to the women in Ireland, or Mississippi - whose last abortion clinic was just informed of impending closure - who have and will be left to bleed to death, or have their futures foreclosed, if they need an abortion.  What is the resounding reality that connects these women together across the globe?  The message being blasted at all of us, and actively lobbied for, defended, legislated, enforced, and validated all around the world:  There is a very well-defined place for women in society.  It is on a leash.  Your worth is calculated the same way as the worth of a slave.  Your ability and desire to bear children, and to “please your master” and be subordinate to your husband or father, decides your value as a commodity.

This is the same value calculation being done in the minds of young men and women being “educated” by the most violent and degrading pornography ever to be accepted widely as fun, sexy and normal.  Where better to find women on their knees, in literal chains, being forced to perform such degrading acts as sucking their own shit off of some guy’s dick right after he fucks her in the ass?  Telling girls before they hit their teens, before they even really understand what sex is, that their worth is based on their ability to serve, to succumb, to sell themselves and humiliate themselves for the pleasure of men.  And what about the boys?  Encouraging them to take on the mentality of the slavemaster, the dominator, the oppressor, at every turn.  To be in control of the bodies of women, glamorizing rape, and celebrating slavery.  Even porn that is produced by women, even porn where the actors are paid well, even gay porn, trains the minds of the people that watch it to be either dominant or submissive, there is an actor and an object, whether it is acted out in traditional ways, or ways that sell themselves as more “progressive.” This patriarchal system that promotes the domination of men over women is the same system that shames, threatens, demonizes, and attacks LGBT people for refusing to conform to their “proper” traditional gender roles.  If you can’t imagine sex without porn, you’re fucked.  Where does that leave the majority of us in society today??

For these reasons and more, it is imperative that women and men take a stand, to call BULLSHIT on this very loud, very well-funded message, and the monster of a system that feeds and then congratulates it, while it continues to enslave women, and steal away the humanity of men.  We can and must FIGHT THE POWER, and challenge the terms that were set a long time ago - the terms that are limiting people’s very ability to imagine a world without these horrific, outdated realities.  We actually CAN ultimately create a world where this message would be laughable if it wasn’t so horrible: Your value as a woman is equal to your ability to SUBMIT.  FUCK THAT.

Let’s go out tomorrow and FIGHT.

Let’s call BULLSHIT on the porn stores and strip clubs that profit every single day on the the saturation of society by that multi-billion dollar lie about what a woman’s life, mind, and body is “worth.”  Let’s call BULLSHIT on religious fundamentalisms of every shape and size, that claim moral high ground while at the same time it is selling the same lie as the porn industry: Your value as a woman is equal to your ability to SUBMIT.  Let’s go straight to the right-wing activist churches, and to the Vatican itself, and call BULLSHIT on their blatant hatred and oppression, their calculation of the worthlessness of any woman who would choose NOT to be subservient, or NOT to be a mother.  Women are HUMAN BEINGS, not some product, some toy, some commodity, whose worth needs to be calculated and dictated to all of us by this capitalist system and its bullshit institutions.  

Bring a fighting spirit, a spirit of DEFIANCE against this patriarchal system, and against the biggest lie it promotes - that this is the only way the world can function!  That this is somehow OK or the natural order of things!  That we can’t unite and resist and ultimately fight all the way through to put an END to this system, these institutions, this bullshit message that is so essential to their existence and their prosperity, and to the fear and silence of women everywhere we go.


End Pornography & Patriarchy, The Enslavement & Degradation of Women.


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Mar 8, 201311 notes
#IWD #internationalwomensday #Protest #anti-patriarchy #anti-porn #stoppatriarchy #prochoice #pro-choice #abortion #oppression #liberation #REVOLUTION
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